
Feeling Worthy Through Others’ Weaknesses
I spent a good portion of my life outsourcing my validation to the outside world. Partly because I didn’t know any other way to validate myself, and also because I was desperately seeking it.
In this piece, I felt threatened and insecure when a new member joined my team at work. That day I noticed how I can be a bully and emotionally manipulate people around me to feel better about myself.